LBH w/ a WXW after the D - now what

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I think she is still temp checking. She has no proof or reason to believe I would be in another relationship. She is projecting her wrongs on me.....maybe to make herself feel better.

I don't think she is at the bottom yet. She is still rarely apologizing. The last time she blew up she told me she knew it was wrong and she apologized to the kids but she didn't apologize to me for the hurtful things she said. She still doesn't take full responsibility for her words or actions. I don't know if I yet have the leverage to recommend she seeks professional help and to learn the steps of reconciliation.

She may even believe she was reaching out to me again. However, she reaches out to me with attacks. I'm not interested in pursuing a relationship like that again. She is no where near as healthy as she thinks she is and I'm not getting back into that relationship.

I feel God is again telling "Just wait"