2016 a New Year - getting out of my own fog

[Irish M]

It's odd how they walk away and then fight to make the other parent look like trash. Then again, it's not that out of character, right? Seems human to me at this point and has a lot to do with identity in my opinion.

Hi AJ , great info and knowledge that you share each time you post. I thank you.

Yes she does seem to need to justify her actions that I'm trash. Then she will email the D's on how I'm a good dad. At least she doesnt trash me to them. Then again they know more of the truth then she does.


Peace - i agree. It's for the best they don't witness this new W.
We try to protect our kids and end up focusing on the pain they feel about missing the person out MLC'r once were. They will learn to accept that she is who she is now. But like AJ said , it's years away if at all. We are lucky in a way Peace. Our kids are stable and safe from witnessing this MLC. You are a strong woman, it shows in your posts and on the ones you post to others. I stand corrected AJ . Peace is a similar sitch. I guess I need to re-read some now that my own mind is clearer.

Inpain- yes they cried then got mad at W. I know it's a step that has to happen. W hasn't felt any consequences yet. Time for her is weeks to our months. She says things happened days ago when it was last September.
Me being a dad is my number 1 job. My W always told them that if they get boyfriends make sure they are like their Daddy. The girls told me this not long ago after W said the last 10 years were fake.
You are very welcome for my input, I hope I help. I really feel your pain. Wish I could take it from you for one day so you could take a break and find you.


Girls got an email . I counted the ones they got since W left in August last year. A grand total of 7 including this one. Then again there was one the D15 initiated when's she asked for her WII and tablet back. W said they were broken in the move.

Today's email was more of the same. Except she contradicted herself.
She says to othes that i Prevent her from seeing them. In the email she says I know daddy wants me to see you and isn't preventing you from seeing me. Then She goes on saying she made this mess. She hopes one day they will forget all this and want to see her.

Forget? Is she mad. Oh I forget , yes she is. They can't forgive by forgetting. I did that 10 years ago. Forgetting what she did. I can't forget this time. She hopefully will mature and work on the forgive part. Lots of work for her but I have faith one day she'll do it.

Warm weather here. Skiing and skating is closed for a while. So planning a road trip this weekend with the girls to visit some friends we usually only see in the summer .

Irish