Sounds drastic and exciting all at once. Don't underestimate your role to your kids in early adulthood.But with technology these days distance does not have to feel far away.follow your dream. I'll put it on my to-visit places.

I read something this morning about WAS. They feel hopeless and only see one solution.TThey do and say stuff to their spouses both to convince them both thatTHAT is the solution and also to not give false hope. But deep down many want to have hope and would prefer to save their M but don't think it can be. This is why it is important that we the lbs changes and that we remain positive. Not letting the current situation bring us down is a huge part in that. Either way it can only do us good to not be down or gloomy.SShow our best side. Please share how you specifically are doing that.

Best wishes


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together