Believe nothing your WH says ok? That's one of Sandi rules.
I had those laminated and measured myself against them every month.
Your FIL sounds very cruel, saying those things about his M after all this time. Makes me very uncomfortable hearing that.
A small point if you are off moderation, then it's a good idea to complete your tags. Those are the items you see at the bottom of the posts, giving age etc. It helps others review your sitch (memory jogger) and you will get more posts. Helps build your online tribe here (family).
I am disappointed your WH is playing these games, review Sandi rules regularly and one of the books to read regularly is DB and DR.
Hugs
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW