No, I meant your H and his brother. Just tonight I was wishing I could be in touch with W's sister, but I guess that's not a good idea. I know she was rooting for our R, as were the SILs. When a r ends you lose the family, too. That's sad (sometimes). Still hoping mine's a temporary hiatus...
Oh yes. They had a rough upbringing. Not justifying at all just a fact. Raised around adults that never showed them what love is or that family is important. D, As even abuse were common.
As for losing the family too. My family and I are not like that at all. If my brother or sister are in the wrong they get told just as much. And my mother is still friendly with exes of ours. It's quite funny actually. A few years ago my brother had to explain to his GF that the girl talking to and helping my mom cook was his ex, and she wasnt going anywhere. Awkward! LOL
And why do you think its a bad idea to talk to her sister? I talk to plenty of his friends and some of his family. Just not about this. (Except his XSIL plus I did talk too much to his friends and family during PA...now I know better)
Is that what you meant? Talking to her about your W and R?
And NYGal I pray this is a temporary hiatus for you too.
