'The Journey from Abandonment to Healing' Susan Anderson

I found this book in one of the newcomer threads and I think you should get it. Its basically written by a woman who has worked with LBS's for years. She was even one herself after a 20 year relationship. I've only read part of the first 2 of 5 stages and Ill say its shockingly accurate to how I've been feeling this entire year. Ghost, these issues do need to be worked out in IC but I really feel this book will help you, and others here, also.

It gives a legitimate explanation for whats happening in our brains after BD and techniques for healing through each stage.


Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be