Hey Betsey, just finally finding time to catch up on your sitch. Whew, finally did some WORK at work.
It sounds like you have the strength and determination to come to the right conclusion for you and your family. I envy your strength. Although I think I could do the same, let go if needed, I would probably break down in the end.
Mr W sounds depressed from your description. You certainly can't be his court jester. I hope it works out with him, but I don't fear for you.
Hey, my H is an engineer also.
I'm trying my best to keep up my PMA now, it does seem as if the whole BB is down. Well, I'm up, so if anyone needs some cheering up, hopefully I can do it. (Not as well as Dazed, though, gotta love that guy.)