Mu, detachment is essential for your mental health. It doesn't mean you don't care. Just that you know you can't control and aren't responsible for her actions. Be loving and respectful and live.
Remember, eat life! Accept it for what it is, even when it's not what we want. And it is only this way now. May be completely different next week or next month.
You're a great man. Keep being great, and if she wakes up all the better!
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....