Thank you for posting in my thread, I've been reading through some of your back story...your W sounds a lot like me (minus the A, completely and the fact that I'm the one that wants to work) but I really enjoy in some of your older forums seeing your goals about the W. I truly *think* my H feels similar. (Sorry to hijack, ;))
I will be reading through the rest of your posts tonight. Thank you again for the advice. I'll be reading and heading.