Kyrie, my H is insulted that I GAL too. He says "How can you go out and have fun while my mother's life has been destroyed" (not a direct quote but that was the content.) I finally said "I am done suffering. I am done being stuck. My life is moving forward, I hope you can join me." Since then I get a lot of head shakes and generally grumpy demeanor when I am doing something but he has stopped talking about it.
