It's great to come here and see some positive things happening for you NYGal. I know you were down and questioning the process as I'm sure a lot of us here have. Now to see some positive results must be a great feeling!

I have to say tho. TxHubby you brought me down a bit. I avoid so many threads here because after reading the first post I know the marriage is DOA and just don't have the heart to tell the person it's over, move on. After reading that I realized you have never posted on my thread. 😔 fortunately NYGal has given me renewed hope.

And Wonka's advice on the money sitch makes sense to me. I'm in the same boat with W owing me. Timing is tough but crucial.

The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.