Had a talk today. She was basically testing me to see if I would agree to the in house "friends" situation with us both being free to do whatever we wanted. In other words, she gets to see him out in the open. If not, then she was going to get a place right away. I know that some people have adopted a "standing" approach where they look the other way and see if the A burns out, but that seems so demeaning. And Sandi, if woman needs to respect to fall back in love, I don't see how she could respect a man who would do that. Am I right?

She hinted that though she doesn't see MR as a possibility now, once she left she KNOWS she would never come back. Yeah, I know, don't believe anything they say... wink Temp checking? Manipulation?

H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21
M:12 BD:1/15
In-house Separation 2/15
DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15
Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16
Reconciliation 1/17
Obviously still struggling