Red

You don't need to do anything ok?

You can choose your boundaries and choose to enforce them.

That's your choice, and it's ok if WH invades your space as long as its your choice!

No must, should or need to. You choose who is allowed in your space. You adjust your boundaries accordingly.

You do what is right for you in your sitch.

If WH crosses your boundaries then you enforce. All of this is your choice.

When you go talk to an L discuss your entitlement to your home, fin support, your car and custody, now and in the event of D.

Marilyn Stowe has a website and there are discussion on there about how to choose an L. Sounds like the last one was out of their depth.

I chose a specialist L in the end, I felt I could work with her.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW