I tried talking to one lawyer and her advice was until there were papers it was a waste of time to come in.She asked me a bunch of questions that I said I don't know to and she said they we didnt even sound like we were getting a divorce just separated and I never tried calling anyone else.
Maybe I should call others for their opinions.
Yes I will work on good boundaries for the next time I see him which should be Wednesday or Thursday. Usually we hangout for 5-6 hours before one of us leaves to go to our parents and even though I LOVE spending time with him, knowing that he keeps saying he wants the divorce I think I need to 180 that.
Im realizing that I need to change a lot of things which [censored] because I feel like I'm doing all these changes while he does nothing and geta to be super happy.
