You need to know your rights. I really believe in this.
It doesn't mean you want to D immediately, it means you know what is what.
I interviewed four Ls got four opinions. All of this was free by each L, for a number of reasons (including liability insurance) Ls give the first interview free. Looh for an L that fits you.
Find out your position, this is particularly important if your WH has a business. I really believe in this.
You can also know about your children, custody. Your L can also absorb the heat from your sitch.
Knowledge is power in this.
There are three c words I want you to know, cards, close and chest.
In my opinion the earlier the better if WH is protecting his rice bowl.
Hugs
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW