Okay detaching and knowing it means nothing. Moving on from what he tells his friends.
I just have issues I guess inforcing the personal space because we SHARE the house on his days off. ON HIS days off he comes here and I HAVE to leave for the night and sleep at my moms that way he can have the kids overnights. He doesn't take them to his parents overnight and he tells them that he is working a lot and that is why he is gone so much.
They are used to him being gone for work overnights for his job he is just gone a lot more now.
I really do feel like I have no privacy. He has access to the house, my car(he has my spare key), everything while he has a full room where he stays I still share mine with him. 70% of his stuff is still in our room-house.
I have only had one other boyfriend when I was in highschool besides my husband. I have been with him since I was 17 so I guess any of my issues of giving away personal power comes from him?? I'm not sure. I never thought about it
How do you recommend my boundaries to be when he lives here part time, has most his stuff here, and owns the house.
