His partners wife called me today. Just to talk. She said her husband told her not to tell me but my WAS all he does at work is talk about me and make it seem like we are going to get back together or that he is thinking about coming back. Half the people dont know whats going on but his closest friends do. Ive been curious today now about why he wants to tell them all about me..my job offers, weightloss, everything I do and why he doesn't tell him that he wants the divorce. They are his best friends. I trust his friends wife, she tells me everything even if its bad like when he told his friends he felt forced into marrying me because we had our daughter at the time. Is it just to save his face at work? His friends he works closes with know we are separated. They know we dont live together and that he only sees me on his days off. I dont understand why he doesnt tell them. Shes one of my best friends and I cant even tell her he told me he wants the divorce and hes said it 2x now because it would get back to him. I feel like I'm lying by telling her I just dont know and I'm focusing on me and the kids and how tobe the best version of me tjat I can be for myself.
