Thanks Trumpet. Hope you're well. My H keeps saying how insulting it is that I GAL and act like everything is fine. I tried to validate by saying that I know everything isn't 'fine' with us. I DO feel better when I put the best construction on things, focus on growth and gratitude. He didn't like it but he pivoted to something else to aim at. Things have been a little less hostile. Still sniping, still 'testing' me. Dunno. I still haven't written out that pro/con of stay or go. When I started to, a lot of it sounded more like just excuses to stay. Which may have been her point. But none of them are 'deal breaking' excuses... so it seemed like an empty exercise if that's all there is to it. Who knows.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
