Maybe you might be able to get another opportunity if you tried to calm some things with her.
Maybe a quick response validating her her about her junk she threw at you, not accepting it as ok or anything but just to make sure she knows what she says about you is not true.
"I here what you are saying and saw, that must be difficult. However, I am not in any relationship nor am i looking for one."
leave it like that, maybe she will come back calmer and maybe even apologize. If that works then maybe open the door to bring up what she told you in november about her fantasy about living separate and then dating and working through counseling.
I know this fantasy seems strange and you rejected it, but i am thinking about it. Is there a better way to start over? This could let you both work through things and both of you take the needed steps. I am not saying you just commit to it, but you will be able to see if she is actually willing to do the work and own up to her end of things as well as yourself. thoughts?
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
