You are keeping a bridge built - 'keep the road home paved smooth'... some would say smooth, I'm just for keeping the road a road - don't worry about the pavement.
If she shares, great, if she doesn't, DON'T ASK. It's her thing now, not yours. Yes, you worked WITH her to get to her goals, but she needs to feel like she did this on her own. You're putting her first. That's how a marriage works. And if the EA/PA is going on, when things go bad, she'll remember you for what you do NOW to keep the road/bridge open. No need for dynamite yet!
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)
