I get that, but you keep saying she is not doing anything to actually reconcile.

What you are doing is good and correct as in taking care of yourself and not having things done to you that you do not like.

but

If she was to look at you, could she say you are not taking any steps to help reconcile with her as well?

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15