Okay, now I'm really scared. LNL...My H said the SAME thing!!
Betsey......An engineer- MINE is TOO!!!; I can totally relate to what you said here!!! I have analyzed most of my sitch and through reading, etc...believe that my H is the same way. Just last night I came to realize that he's scared. Scared to fail, if he takes a 2nd chance; scared that I may be right about how Great it can be in the future; scared to "CHANGE" or accept that it is happening.
This is too eerie........ (sorry guys)-some men just SUCK at admitting their true feelings to others and to themselves. (of course I'm not including you WONDERFUL men on the BB here)
So, we have become their "safety zone". I totally agree and that's where I'm headed. Whether or not it will be a good thing, I don't know but it can't hurt. Like we always said, if it's not working, try something new. So, it's time to shake it up a bit and see if my H will put any effort into it or not. He's actually done more than I thought he would ever do already.
Well, all I can say is Good Luck. I'll agree that we are aligned (kind of like Mercury and the Sun?? LOL) but soon you will pass me-I'm sure. LOL!
I do love my H and do believe that he exists inside this person. Right now he is just a shell of the man I know and love and is in a "zombie-like" state. I don't want to put my life on hold forever either so I"m gonna see what affect MC has for us.
I am glad you see the light and are comfortable with your decisions. I still have a little bit of work to do there but am gaining ground. You're a great person and I wish you success in your endeavors. Take care and stop over to share your thoughts w/me again. Tootles......
