Wife is in love with another man

[shreeve]

Trumpet, thank you thank you thank you! That is so wonderful to hear. I have been starting to use this board as my journal (in addition to my actual journal). Why is it so darn heard to resist talking to my wife when she calls??? I did so good when she picked up the dogs, kindly rushed her out for the weekend / no hugs / touching / minimal eye contact. I can sense the coldness in her heart. Why the hell would I say those things this morning? She doesn't care, and is love with some guy. What's worse, is she tells me "thank you for telling me that, I appreciate you letting me know how your doing." Of course, there is that rule....Believe none of what she says. I'll try to do better next time. She'll probably want to call with an update on her fist day at work (it's what we've both worked for the last 2.5 years). I can't help but feel some sense of accomplishment as I was a big part in her achievement and feel proud of her. I'll get back to being polite / getting off the phone as quick as possible.