Well.....I believe I am still DBing. I am moving on with my life. I'm not pursuing. I'm GALing. I'm not reaching out to her or engaging in these conversations. I only talk with her about the kids and finances. I continue to detach.
She is not accustom to not having her way. I don't think she's ever been rejected or ignored. And she has bullied me around for years. I am no longer being bullied, manipulated or giving into her demands. I'm not allowing her to trap me into verbal fights.
Basically I'm ignoring her and she is lashing out.
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place