Quote: Frankly, I don't think that guy is ever coming back because it requires too much effort and thought.
I fear I may have the same problem with my H.
At bombshell time he said, "If we have to work on a relationship, then it's not worth it"!
If he spent a fraction of the time thinking about how to mend this R that he spends on researching tobacco and pipes, his lates craze, then we'd have a marriage to be proud of!
(I wish it really were funny... )
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates