Well I got confirmation that the wife is going to Mexico for her friends wedding with the OM in a few months. The bride herself called me to ask WTF is going on. I'm not sure how the wife paid for the trip but my guess is she put it on her personal credit card.
Saturday my in-laws invited the kids and I to go to an event, my wife's favorite aunt is in town. I asked the wife if should would like to join us and she said No. Then she asked why they called me and also wife didn't know her aunt was visiting us. They called me because she never answers the phone. As soon as she said she isn't going with us, she started texting her parents and aunt. Telling them she is tired and wants some "mommy" time, then sent pics of all the cool things she and the kids did that day. Such as Wife sitting in the garage drinking while the kids road there bikes.
Then Sunday we were leaving for a kids birthday party and she sends me a text from her bathroom "I can't go, I'm having an anxiety attack" I replied with "Ok". About 10min later just as we are about to leave she comes out balling, makeup running etc. and tells me again she can't go. I again just say "Ok". What caused this? Her guilt? Doesn't want to see friends or family? BTW: I jumped in the bathroom to get my comb while she was getting ready and she had a beer in the shower, just out of sight. I'm starting to worry about the drinking.
She did go out later Sunday for dinner with us, in-laws, and aunt. While walking through the park to the restaurant my S6 got a little lost and scared, wife call for him and he comes running back with tears on his face. The wife opens her arms as he is running back to us, he just runs around/past her and directly to me, big hug. Very telling... Later at dinner D5 asked "mommy why don't you wear your rings anymore, daddy does". Wife's reply "They hurt my fingers, don't fit very well anymore" D5 reply "Daddy had them fixed for you last year" Nothing gets by our D5. The look on wife's face was priceless.
