Waw, she is in love, need advice/support

[Bear007]

For the time limit on hugging and snuggling, I guess I have controlling issues of my own that I should address.

She never told me that she does not love me, on the oposite, she told me that she loves me, but differently, and also I don't get the impression she want to hurt me. She just does not want to live with me.
Occasional slips happen, but I have detached from lot of situations, and am getting better at handling everyday situations.
OM is still in picture.

Rephrasing question:
what is the best option for DB-ing my WW
is it a letting her live on the couch, being OK but detached
or
forcing physical detachment by renting apartment, even at my expense, to speed thing up.

Would physical detachment speed things up?

thanks for the advices.