Well, I feel like I should have been kind and gracious but cut the call short and got back to work (you're referring to the call and not the marriage right??) I just look at all the posts / situations on the boards and see so few reconciliations, and the saved marriages I do see seem to take a year or more. I saw one last week that was 11 months, but it was from 2209 or 2006. His wife fell head over heels in love with another man and was back with him 11 months later. I have to stick to my DR and message board advice, and not offer her that comfort of calling me for encouragement / support one the way to and from work. I'm never going to get to sleeping / focusing at work until I accept reality and move on.
M 43 W 45 M 10.5 T 15 S 26 D 17 (previous relationships) ILYB 12/25/15 + asks for D Confirm affair 1/10/16 W has D ready to sign, but agrees to wait for refinancing to go through (I get a house!)
