I feel like we have really mis-communicated and mis-understood each other on several occasions but I know when she expressed attraction for this work colleague, I asked for as little contact as possible. That was the commitment I needed from her and didn't get it. She has regularly said he was not the problem, which I could understand the first time round, that it was a symptom of our problems. However I find it hard to agree with that a second time round and when she said she would take him out of the picture. It just didn't last very long and I can admit that I maybe didn't handle it the best but I had thought my feelings would be recognized.
I don't know, I don't feel she will be one to admit to any mistakes and I feel like my kids will suffer because of it.
I know patience and time is the key and I'm am using this time to improve myself and learn from my mistakes. Just wish we could do it together.
