I'm not scared or afraid of her moving out, in some sense I feel she needs it to, to see how much she has leaned on me over the years.
She wants this independence and freedom.
I'm not saying I haven't made my own mistakes within this relationship, I have many regrets and hurt that has not been resolved but I do believe if we could get through this with the help of a guide, our family could be wonderful.
She was telling me yesterday that the first house we bought together, she only did it to make me happy, again with our choice to build our house after our move, that again she only did it to make me happy. As has been written, every negative thought about our marriage, which has been stressful in many occasions, is being used as her reasons for leaving.
