Pretty sure I blew it this morning We were unsure of when my wife would start her job, but they called her in this morning for 2 cases, and she called me on the way to work to tell me. As I was helping her through med school, she would typically call each day on the way home from clinical work, not sure if she's doing it out of habit now or what. I was supportive and told her she was going to do great, and congratulated her on finally starting the career after all of her hard work. So, that was probably way more than I should have offered, but then I go on...I told her I was sorry for not knowing when I had my "last" chance and did a little relationship talk. I know I was supposed to be short / brief / courteous, and I really really tried! So, not how far this set me back, I know she's still in love with the OM and still looking forward to her fairy tale love / romance with him. I know I should be angry over the betrayal / disrespect, but can't seem to get there. Oh well, have support group and counseling this week, hopefully it will keep me moving in the right direction for getting my head / emotions right. Could sure use some patience right now I guess.
M 43 W 45 M 10.5 T 15 S 26 D 17 (previous relationships) ILYB 12/25/15 + asks for D Confirm affair 1/10/16 W has D ready to sign, but agrees to wait for refinancing to go through (I get a house!)
We were unsure of when my wife would start her job, but they called her in this morning for 2 cases, and she called me on the way to work to tell me. As I was helping her through med school, she would typically call each day on the way home from clinical work, not sure if she's doing it out of habit now or what. I was supportive and told her she was going to do great, and congratulated her on finally starting the career after all of her hard work. So, that was probably way more than I should have offered, but then I go on...I told her I was sorry for not knowing when I had my "last" chance and did a little relationship talk. I know I was supposed to be short / brief / courteous, and I really really tried! So, not how far this set me back, I know she's still in love with the OM and still looking forward to her fairy tale love / romance with him. I know I should be angry over the betrayal / disrespect, but can't seem to get there. Oh well, have support group and counseling this week, hopefully it will keep me moving in the right direction for getting my head / emotions right. Could sure use some patience right now I guess.