WAW - Detaching is the Hardest Thing

[Huddy]

Cocaine - in a house with kids in it and you're being unreasonable? I would keep that card up your sleeve, for now, in case it gets nasty. What kind of 'friends' are they anyway? And so it'll affect her career - well, she's got to take responsibility for her own actions. Next she'll be saying that your actions made her take it. Madness, pure madness.

I think sandi2 would say that she has gone beyond wayward. If the only real complaint is about you being withdrawn and not doing the shopping, that's all balljacks. You seem to be in a good place - that's good. Don't let yourself fall in to the 'if she says it's my fault, it must be' mentality. So, you don't like using toys in bed - big deal. If she'd talked to you about it, I'm sure you would have come around to the idea. It's all excuses and lies. They'll lie until they're blue in the face. Be the man, look after yourself and the kids first.