Not only were my actions out of order they were out of character

Been to the gym this morning had a good workout session

Going to give my W as much space as I can I will let her be the one to initiate any communication and interactions.

I hate this position just have to accept it along with everyone else

As soon as she started adding emotional abuse into the equation I do not have any hope...when she told me she wanted out because I was not doing enough with the children all around the house this was quite easy to fix but how do I fix a mindset where she feels that I have been emotionally abusive and perhaps I have been more so than I ever realised.

I need to keep reading the rules and try and follow them thank you


Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.