[mleigh4]

Ah Bright, people just don't get it. One of my BFF is always trying to set me up. I also have a co-worker who points out attractive men to me. I don't think they really mean harm, they just don't understand. I mean look at us, we have been here for YEARS! Not months but years. Before learning what I have learned here, I too would never have understood that.

Bright, we are proud of you. You have shown patience, compassion, class, dignity, humor and love during a time when most would give up. That makes you quite an amazing person. I suppose we learn who we can talk to and when to stay quiet. And trust me, I am a classic spinner, I can't count how many times I have gone back and forth! It can be embarrassing, but it's real. This experience is real. We had no warning or training for this, it got thrown at us and we all are still learning how best to deal with our own unique situations.

It's normal to hit these low spots, I am sending big hugs your way. It's important during these low times to take care of you, do something nice for yourself. (((Hugs)))