Ghostbusting Round 5 Detaching my feelings

[ATPeace]

Hi I do see that my actions the other day were completely out of order and my wife must have been scared which led to her anger I have not been seeing things clearly

I have taken some legal advice a couple of months ago but this was just a couple of free taster sessions

I do not want to make my sitch worse so before I offer to give my W some space I will seek some legal advice.

My W and I are still talking eating together watching TV together and generally getting along ....do I speak to my W with a heartfelt apology over how I behaved and how I made her feel I want to reassure her that I am never going to put her in that position again and that I was behaving out of character as I was.

I was not violent towards her I was not agressive with my behaviour I did not raise my voice, I did partially block her way from leaving with my daughter and I lightly touched her arm and used the words please can we talk about this. There was no threading behaviour or aggressive behaviour towards her however I,do see how my actions did make her feel scared

This all developed from me getting upset and trashing junk / unimportant things which she saw as important

For now I will very much keep myself to myself and let her do all the approaching if she wants to interact with me

Thank you and I will seek legal advice

Ghost