How do you set boundaries if your WAS wont actually follow them. Even though HE said we needed to just be friends he wasnt going to touch me or hug me anymore...it didnt happen. He tried tickling me from behind today and I walked away. Im sick so when he left I was half asleep on the couch and he tucked a blanket over me then kissed my forehead and gave me a hug while I was trying to sleep and I rolled over. I don't know how to word or explain that I don't want him doing that.
I am going to recommend you review the boundaries cheat sheet.
I also love Al Turtle on Boundaries, try googling that to get another way of looking at boundaries.
Boundaries need consequences and these can and must be enforced.
There is little use in having a boundary that is not enforceable. It merely seems weak and back tracking. Boundaries are about that which is under your own control.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
