Originally Posted By: sandi2
When you read the WW threads, did it sound similar to your W's behavior now?


Some of the behavior yes.
Since Our last conversation on Thursday night here is what I done not sure if I'm losing her more or making progress.
Friday I did not get up like I been doing since for the most of the month "Getting up and helping get the kids ready". I stayed in my our room (I'm the one in it now, she sleeps in the guess room), Saturday I got up and with the kids, she went out to the grocery to get eggs for breakfast, I served my self something else to eat. When she came back she told me she needed some time alone to cry (She look like she needed to cry) and went into our bedroom for a few hours mind that she took her phone with it, later that afternoon she made a bath for me. Today she during breakfasts one of our kids ask for the food he refuse when she ask him, I was going to take some from my plate and give it to him, she got furious left the table and mumbling "Why did I have to have boys, they are a..holes.., since then she has been in the guess room mainly on her phone (texting or chatting or something) I took our kids to church and she joined us. Her being on the phone is more consistent now.
Am I doing the right thing by going dark? Or am I just pushing her farthest from me? Mind that her major complaint was I did not show her the love I have for her.


T: over 15yrs
M: 8yrs
W: 41 H: 41
S1: 10 S2: 5 S3: 4