K, it's great to see you on here. I've been wondering what you were up to.

WRT the guy you just broke up with -- that's not about you, sweetie. He wasn't the right one. I've been reading a lot of dating coach blogs and the one thing they all repeat is that there are TONS of guys out there, but only ONE YOU. Remember that, and value yourself that way.

It sounds very much like you chose someone who was just not emotionally available because you're not quite there yet yourself. That's OK!! Take your time and focus on having fun and getting to know who you're spending time with, without thinking about being WITH him. Keep that foot out the door and put your focus on just getting to know your dates. Maybe even date a couple of guys, casually, at the same time! This might give you more perspective on what's out there.

I'm sorry you're hurting. I'm glad you came back here for some comfort. I've been thinking about you.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.