Bets- Your daughters have both seen you fight, and fight hard for this M. You have learned a great deal about yourself, and R's and M's...you have become a new and more wonderful person.
You have done a DAMN good job at DBing, and you're right, he does seem comfortable. Maybe Mr. W thinks that he could never possibly lose you? Maybe some more decisive action is what's needed for him to realize he has to get off his duff and pay his dues, M-wise. Whatever you choose to do, I know it will be a decision made with great love, wisdom, and a lot of reflection. ((((((((((Bets))))))))) Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.
