Ghost
Everyone has told you the same thing. Meet with the lawyer. Make sure you are not going to be held accountable for leaving children. Go stay at mothers for a while. Yes fine a few weeks. Don't take stuff. You are not moving there. You are going to stay there. Make up a story if needed. Say she needs some help with things.

You are going to make a bad situation happen staying at home.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15