Tyler, I think the most important things is to focus on yourself. I am 7 months into this weird limbo state and while I do occasionally spin, most the time I am on solid footing because I focus on myself. I am trying to make myself better in every aspect. I reflect on our marriage and try to figure out my role in the issues. I also am trying to get in tip top physical shape and improve my social skills. All of this takes my mind off her.
Sandi's comments on the LBH becoming the WAS are interesting, I can easily see how that could happen, I can see how it could happen to me. In a lot of ways I think reconciling would be more difficult than where I am at currently.
