Another thing I struggle with is this: Is it possible to let go, heal and move on & have hope for a reconciliation at the same time? Is it possible to do both or is it prolonging recovery if he never comes back and increasing heartache by holding on and hoping for change. Just confused a bit....
T-20 yrs M- 7yrs Me-46 XH- 44 S15, S21 1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07 1yr separation, my decision-2012 His PA started Aug 2016 I moved out Sept/16 He's been with OW ever since
