Quote: Let's go with the more positive aspects of Aries women: independent, self motivated, fiercely loyal [n.b. Merrick--to OM?? ] and driven. That describes us, doesn't it?
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BETSEY! It's nice to see you again! You seemed to have handled yourself very well among your fam. Your convo's w/D10 are so touching, I got tears in my eyes. What a wonderful little girl!
Wow! on your detaching and the sense of peace that you have. I think it is great. Hopefully Mr. W WILL realize what he is missing out on. You are great! I'm sure he knows it...just doesn't know how to show it...
Hey Betsey.....welcome back. I was going to give you some time to catch up w/just getting back and all but your "fan club" sure has you busy. Happy bday to you!
Quote: A more bizarre man cannot be found walking this earth...
I'm not sure that the rest of us wouldn't like to share in this quote. LOL
Well, when you do catch up, please stop over and visit my new thread......Who's driving this wreck......and share any ideas. I feel like we are in the same "nightmare" and my H is "without a clue" like yours. But it does seem like your H may be hitting his awakening??? That's a good thing. I feel like I'm on the same path w/trying to get my head and heart in line. I thought I was there and feel my heart may be but my head is playing tricks on me now. Oh well, enough about me.
Glad you had a good trip. Talk w/ya soon. tootles.........
Ever think about walking around your house with one of your dad's swords? That would make Mr.W snap out of his confused state and also be great motivation for him to get into gear. LOL You can even wear your Tartan Day Sash.
You know, I told my first W (that is how I will refer to my X ) that I am happy that she has chosen this route, the D route. It opened up a new world to me, I've met many new friends here. I was lucky enough to meet you and you had such a grand inpact on my life. You and your D made me feel special and warm inside. Kinda hard to explain, but trust me that the hour or so that we met will last a life time.
You MUST have an awesome Bday! Go out on Friday with the girls and make Mr.W play Mr.MOM for a night. Get out and have some fun, you are only 29 once!
Happy Birthday Betsy!
Berto
I believe that dreams are more powerful than facts,that laughter is the only cure for grief. And I believe that love is stronger than death
The visual of going after Mr. Wonderful bearing weaponry is almost more than I can handle! Personally, I have to admire your way of thinking--a true warrior at heart...
Listen, I have to say that I have to love a guy who lets my little one take their hand and drag them all around hell's half acre. D7 is a good judge of character and she decided she was in love with you... that warmed MY heart.
Besides, there is something really special about watching big guys with little girls. Gets me a little choked up.
I'll have fun all week long... Friday is Good Friday and I'm heading to Stations of the Cross and to Tenebrae with my Denver-based surrogate parents. I'll hold the celebratory thought until my next trip east... that could be as soon as this summer if I have to testify before Congress on behalf of persons with disabilities.
Berto, take care and keep being you. You're an awfully special man and your W needs to have her head examined for more than a few reasons...
Bets
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
] and driven. That describes us, doesn't it? 
