I want to be financially independant I want to go back to school I want to continue to be a loving, nuturing, creative person. I want to start being independant. Right now my house, car, bills, everything is in my WAS name. I don't even have a bank account or access to his. I NEVER want to be in the position where I have to ask for money 24-7 from any man. I want to avoid being needy and clingy and shy. I want to avoid being a doormat. So many people tell me Im too nice and a doormat. Im tired of being walked on. I want to look back and know that while I try to make people happy that I'm no longer a people pleasing doormat. I hate conflict and change and i want to embarrasse changes in me and my life.