Sigh. Yep. Compounded by the fact that I was with someone who had never been in an in-person relationship much less lived with someone or was married to someone. He never had to adjust a schedule or plan ahead or think much about anything other than what he personally was doing. I was OK with working with it and being patient... up until a point and then I guess it wasn't working for either of us.
I am having a hard time remembering what I did with myself the whole year I was living on my own before I met this guy.. I must have done stuff to keep myself busy and happy but I have no idea what it was, it's like everything before him disappeared. Maybe if I read through some of my old stuff on here I can remember what the heck I was up to.
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final