While I could have chilled out a little more and been less dependent on him, I also think it's a continuum and somewhere out there is someone who feels similarly to me on the "togetherness vs. individualness" scale, where I don't have to lower my expectations and needs to try and keep someone around (at least I hope so because otherwise what the heck am I doing.. may as well give up now).
K, after being married for 25 years, I'm finding it all too easy to want to be more "together" than "individual". I find a guy I like and want to spend a lot of time together right off the bat. When that doesn't work out, then I feel unwanted. Something I definitely need to work on. I'm learning......
