WAW created a narrative in which you are a monster and she had no choice than to leave, then she had her lawyer express that to justify the divorce.
None of this has anything to do with you. Find the grains of truth in WAW's spew that you can use for YOUR benefit and personal growth, make any changes you want to make for you, and keep walking forward.
I don't mind a few imaginary conversations in which you scream at WAW and tell her why she's wrong, how unfair she's being, etc. Just realize that she doesn't really believe what she's saying anyway, she's just repeating her story to herself to help get through her pain. She may never let go of that story, but that doesn't make it true.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
