Yes I will get together a sheet of A4 with details.
Huddy - the straw that broke the camels back was her finding my journal, realising I had snooped on her and took photographs as evidence. She called me the enemy in the house. It gave her the excuse she needed to push for the final separation and D, then when I refused to move out, she said she had no choice but to file for a D.
She her fathers funeral on the 14th we haven't sat together in the evening, although I have been away for 8 nights
The List of Unreasonable behaviour is always exaggerated, and distorted by the lawyers to convince the court that there has been UB and that they should grant the D.
In fact the list is 9 reasons: three relate to the first 12 and a half years of marriage. Nine relate to the last 3 months since BD and make reference to accusing her of having affairs with a family friend and taxi driver, snooping through her personal effects, accessing her emails, and FB account.
It's a load of tosh but still extremely hurtful to see it written down on official documents which will be used in court.
For the first 12.5 years there wasn't much at all in the documents. Supposedly I became withdrawn and miserable, I didn't support her during the second pregnant by not helping round the house, and I demanded appreciation for the things that I did do. Total bollocks.
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
