It's been almost a week and still no rebuttal from my wife. i don't know if she will ever respond. I wouldn't be surprised if she continues to be quiet until something triggers an R discussion. I will not initiate any such discussion but in the event she does and tries to belittle me again, I am ready to show her that my stance has not altered, I will stick to my guns, be strong, confident and secure.
I am sure what was said was a real eye opener for her. I don't believe she considered all the consequences of separating until I stated my position. Only time will tell what is on her mind.
On another note. I would like some advice regarding my boys and a long over due vacation. It's been too long since I took my boys on a vacation. I would like to take them skiing for a few days in Quebec. I would like my wife to join us but I do not want her to think that this is an attempt to change her mind. This could be the last holiday we spend together as a family.
We haven't been skiing in two years. My boys deserve this getaway and so do I. Do I go ahead and make the reservations and ask if she would like to join us or do I discuss with her first before finalizing any plans?
Don't count the days, make the days count. Mohammad Ali
