Sunday morning, I finally have a day off from work. I am enjoying the quiet of the house and not having any feeling of urgency. My Husband moved out three weeks ago. It wasn't his choice this time, it was mine. For over a year I have asked him to take care of some issues that were important for both of us and he ignored me. I brought the subject up again in October, and I was ignored. So, after Christmas I gave him an ultimatum, and was ignored again. But he did move out and is now living with his mother. I sleep better, I am at peace, and happier. I have no plans at this time to do anything legal, I just want to take my time to figure things out properly. I have no desire to see or date anyone, I only want to focus on myself, my kids and my job. My Husband actually text me to let me know he had finally taken care of two of the issues. He was very proud of himself. He doesn't understand that all of this was so unnecessary, and doesn't get the part of seeing how exasperated I had become. All he sees is that he is doing what he was supposed to do so everything should be OK again. Well, it isn't OK. I really believe in the "faithful in a little, faithful in a lot" and if a person can't follow through with the small things, then how can they be trusted to do the big stuff?
